It is too much overstated that each human being needs freedom of speech, action and dictation by others. But we have hardly seen anything in particular that determines the desire of human beings to give that FREEDOM to others! So it is a matter of choosing your own existence, and to fight hard battle for retaining and even boosting your Self Esteem. You can compromise on petty matters like getting low salary or increments. You can even ignore the negativity that lies in hearts and minds of others but never compromise of “Your Self Esteem”!
Once you are set to protect your personal sanctity and self-esteem then you will do it at all costs. You don’t have to be like a hard rock, to win your presence in the world around. Just be yourself and always go with your Gut Feelings. Never stop your statements that are based on Truth and cause something quite vibrating in air. Keep in mind that all positive and truthful sayings create a sense of irritation, loud anger and hatred amongst those who are never fair while dealing with others.
Having a sound Self Esteem is your real asset, and do not lose it for the sake of making someone unhappy or to hear some loud statements. It needs to be done at the right moment, and to counter everything with positivity andoptimism. Do not let yourself swayed with “Emotions” and always try to be Logical and on the Ground Realitywhen you are presenting your case or Point of View. It is your basic right as a Human Bering on the face of the Earth. Make a simple question to yourself as if you like to be humiliated at the cost of other person’s “evil pleasures”!
I am sure that nobody wants to get any bad or insulting remarks from others, and for those crimes that he or she has never committed. So it is your basic right and in fact more of a duty to safeguard your own personal identity and your Self Esteem. It is am way to let lose your own rope of Freedom of Thoughts and Actions for all kinds ofWorldly Activities.
Here I would like to share another side of boosting your self-esteem. If you believe on presence of Omnipresent God and Religion, and then on Luck and Prayers. Then you must have realized that every time you talk to “God Almighty” then you feel a ‘Spiritual Elevation’ and ‘Satisfaction’. Your Soul is lighter and you feel more comfort in facing even the bigger challenges of LIFE.
Only if you believe in Afterlife, and the fact that your actions, thoughts and social dealings are traced and judged at some other level. You will try to find bigger meaning to life and to solve grand equations of human joys and sorrows in this worldly life. It will automatically boost your trust to say Truth and to try to live with Real Boost in Self Esteem!!