When we are facing some mysterious but serious issues in life then we have a whole shift in thinking mechanism. We try to find fault within us or in the environment around us. So you need see on objective thing in LIFE and that is your own Commitment and Motivation to grow yourself, and to be above ordinary difficulties and troubles. You can never win an argument with Divine Will, and it is best to surrender yourself in front of Fate!
Here I am not telling you to stop making goal objectives or try to be hopeful for good things. I am also totally in favor of all struggle and hard work that is really necessary to do tasks that you want to do. But I am not teaching you to be insecure and be a Pessimist after any Small or Big Failure. So you need to be strong enough to handle crises situation, and to identify you own problems. If you know that the fault does not lie in your action then search the hurdles in the relationships and environment around!
Facing Life with Challenges Determines Our Optimism and Patience
Even if you are not able to find any resultant factor that contribute to your desired accomplishment of your GOALS. You can see it as a test and a preparation for other issues and challenges that go along with life of every Human Being. It might be a test of your Motivation and Optimism. If you are Spiritually Strong and know how to keep a good control of your nerves then you will find both Worldly and Eternal Success for sure!
Keep Your Strong Desire to Move Forward in Life
I wonder how people keep on blaming themselves for some wrong decisions even they wanted everything positive for themselves and for others as well. A failing deed performed with the intention of giving out relaxation and HAPPINESS to others is worth a deal, and it is all positive. You need to see something really strong as the Soul Satisfaction, and the Desire to go ahead even if you have faced the worst kinds of failures and heartbreaks.
It is for your love relationship, marriage, family bonding, and friendship, and even for professional goal attainment. You need to stay focused of Success and Glory in Future. You can stay active and healthy both mentally and physically only if you are not struck to a shock after each failure or heartbreak in other words. Leave the situation in a way, and pray and work hard for the coming days to be in your favor. You will regain all Positive Vibes, Stimulation and Optimism to do your best job of lifetime!!