We think we are on a continuous path of growth but there is a little child in us who keeps on telling us, we have not mastered the skills of laying all new foundations of Nature. We are born with few instincts and then rest of these are learned by the environment, culture and of course society. But we are individual human beings and when something happens in our lives, mostly our instinctive calling that comes form unconscious mind is far different from what we have learn to act!
Human psyche has so many different shapes and designs that it puzzles me to tackle with different persons in a same kind of linkage. We are born to prove our worth with what we do and how we deal with the outer world. But I am just too much into this finding that whatever we have suppressed for long, and we are happy with it, and it just sprouts out of a small incident. We see in our very own self the craving and desire to do the same act that might have bitten us so bitter in the past.
I am not talking about exceptions but I try to give you simple examples like we keep on training ourselves with anger management. But at any moment we snap so high at others, and afterwards we see that we feel guilty that it was only our perception that kept us in most of ways. Similarly we get swayed with false emotions even at a continuous alarm from our mind that it is going to be hurting or difficult to handle. This is how life is taking us in different turns.
We need to separate our irrational beliefs from the rational ones, and then look at the list as what is wrong with adopting a way that is crystal clear in front of us. We can be as successful in mastering our instinctive reactions that is not our self nurturing. Living a successful life depends on prompt actions and reactions that are based on logical reasoning. The emotional element must be hiding behind, and everything must be done in order to make us satisfied afterwards and not to get into any kind of guilt or blame.