I have often heard that people keep on saying that they love others without expectations. Though it is a very good thinking pattern, and a healthy one. But Unconditional LOVE exists quite rare in the world. Actually Human Psyche needs to have different Emotional Gaps that could be filled out with the presence of others in their lives. If the relationships are healthy then it keeps them at a high level of Motivation and Optimism!
Motivation to Help Humanity with Open Heart
Motivation is a key factor to gear up all Success that come with different ventures in LIFE but it is not packed in all Love like things. So we need to distinguish between our loves of other Human Beings without applying and conditions. Then we also need to make a priority list of our Love Bonding that is associate with other material gains and attainments.
Unconditional Love is Desire or a Real Happening
Some People like to say that they have Unconditional Love for everyone, and it carries a way weight. But is it possible for everyone to carry that mind-set as applicable in each case, and with everyone. It is a common Human Psyche that we start expecting the return from others when we do some Good Deeds for others. If we show Love and Affection then we want a payback in any form like a big Thank YOU or the Love in return. It can be all Platonic or a Physical Acquisition of someone!
Helping Others without Expectations is a Great Virtue
I have heard many people saying that they believe in Unconditional Love but then they are seen complaining about their relationship. They keep on blaming others for not fulfilling their demands of love and bonding that they expected. So, it is a duality in the situation, and in fact an irony that needs to be mended. If we say something then we must mean it. Otherwise it is far more effective to be straightforward and ask others that we need a return when we want!
Divine love is Also Based on Eternal Heaven and Peace
It is matter of Hot Debate among my fellows as I am Vocal of the Philosophy that Human Instincts always demand some kinds of benefits in return. Whether it is in verbal form or a GIFT or a Love claim in return. Even human beings love God Almighty for the sake of Heaven in Afterlife, and don’t you think that it is another kind of bond and claim that something is required in return of all devotion and deep-heart Prayers and Piety. I want to know your opinions on this theory!!